What do women want?
A couple of days ago I was asked the exact question: what do women want? And no, it was not regarding houses, clothes or jobs, but regarding the opposite sex. Basically what do women want when looking for a partner.
I always think I am very fast on comebacks and that I always know what I want. But, I could not immediately answer this question... What happened??? Well, if you really think about it, it is a very tough question. Stop reading for a second, and really think about it. Ask yourself!
O.K., sure, looks is important. But honsetly looks alone is not enough for me. I can take the picture of a very hot looking guy and stare at it. After a while the "live" hot guy and the picture have the same effect: you get used to their looks.
O.K., intelligence? Sure, also very important, but I am very honest: I would not want to be with an ugly guy who is very intelligent. Besides, looks always wins the game, since it gets the attention.
Money? Probably for a lot of women. For me it does not work. I absoluetly hate men, who want to tell me how much they inherited or how much they made. It makes me feel as if they want to get me as their next trophy!
So, what makes a "dream man"? I don't know, I think for me it's the combination of all of the above, except the bragging part and the most important ingredient: Humor.
Jean-Jacques Rousseau said that love does not mean when two people look at eachother, but rather when they look into the same direction. And it is absolutely true, when you and someone else expect the same things in life, this is your dreamman/ dreamwoman. Sure, having someone who always agrees with you would be pretty boring, but that not what he means. at least I don't understand it this way. In my opinion it means that oldfashioned, kitschig word: soulmate.
So, in conclusion: That's what women want, someone who understands them, loves them the way they are, is there for them, a shoulder to cry on, someone to cuddle with, someone who warms up your cold feet in winter nights. Is that too much?
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